Back when I was living in Paris, I wrote a blog about l'ennui of day-to-day life. I was at that point where everything just felt 'normal' and I longed for excitement. I do not contest that post now, 3 years later, but I do now know that l'ennui en France is better than l'ennui aux Etats-Unis.
I have been back living in the states for over 3 years now. I have transitioned to a full-time job, and I am grateful for the opportunity to have that stability. I work with students helping them find their ways overseas in study abroad programs, and I can't help but feel the travel bug every single day. I imagine what it would be like to spend a semester in France, South Africa, India, Peru... the list could very easily continue. So, when I was finally able to get a stamp in my shiny new passport this summer, I was beyond thrilled.
As a reminder, I studied abroad in Cannes, France, when I was an undergraduate. Then, between school year work contracts in Spain and France, I hopped back over to Cannes. It is one of those places that really feels like a home away from home to me. So, when I started planning my overseas plans, I knew I wanted to return there. And to my great fortune, my mother decided to join me!
It's amazing how familiar and how foreign life felt at the same time while there. Even though I'm a tad shy, I love the challenge of speaking a foreign language. I know I need to practice more, but it also just came back really quickly, almost like riding a bike. The biggest thing is that my grammar needs work. I more or less understood what was said to me, but I need to work on my grasp of the subjunctive, past tenses, etc. Daily practice helps!
The ins-and-outs of daily life included going to French classes in the morning and then to the beach or on small trips in the afternoons. When we arrived, the water of the French Riviera was extremely chilly, and it took time to get used to, but it was well worth the initial discomfort to relax, floating in the sea water. Overall, the weather was perfect. It didn't really rain on us, and the temperature stayed in the upper 70s, lower 80s. It did start to get a bit too warm near the end, but luckily a nice neighbor helped us figure out the AC.
We rented an apartment that was about a 5 minute walk to the school. It was at the top of a hill overlooking the view of the coast. It was a simple place to stay, a studio, but it had everything necessary for the two weeks we were there. I watched Friends in French, and a couple of French game shows in the evening (my favorite was 'Les Peoples passent le BAC' which had general trivia and reminded me of 'Are you smarter than a 5th grader?').
When we were in Provence in 2009, my mother greatly enjoyed the provincial markets. I tried to find markets near us, but to be honest, they are much better more inland. The markets I found for us were just different... whereas Provence featured local craftsmen, artists, farmers, etc., the markets closer to the coast seemed to import all of their items. It made me wonder if the arts are beginning to fade out in favor of faster production, though I hope not.
The main market in Cannes, the Forville, was a farmer's market, and we went there several times in search of good local produce. Everything was so fresh and colorful! And the strawberries... yum. There was also a bric-a-brac market that sold antiques and flea market items.
We also went to an Artisan market in Antibes. It was more ceramics and ironwork. There was not much by the way of traditional paintings or textile work.
Then, we went to Italy for a day by visiting Ventimiglia. It is the first stop over the France-Italy border, and was said to have a good market on Fridays. It was truly an extensive market, but, again, it was not the local crafts that we were looking for, but rather clothing, designer knock-offs, and cheap household items. We did have gelato and pizza on this little stop-over, but overall this tiny visit was tiring. I think we were both ready to return to France.
An afternoon was also dedicated to visiting Grasse and the Fragonnard perfumerie. There were hiccups finding the right on/off spots for the bus, but overall it was a successful trip. I now have my stash of Belle de Nuit perfume to last me a while longer.
Overall, this was a wonderful vacation! I treasure the moments I spent with my mother and the opportunity to show her one of the places in the world I hold close to my heart.
Wednesday, August 13, 2014
Sunday, February 02, 2014
Life updates
Well, now that I am fully settled in my new job and new location, it has been a while since I last updated. That doesn't mean a lot hasn't happened, though. So, I guess I'll hit the highlights!
Since I was so close to home, I added on a week of vacation with my mom. It was nice being back in Missouri - I got to spend time with family, and had several days to just relax and go to the zoo.
I also bought a toy barn that the girls seem to love :-).
My plans for the short visit got a little muddled. My mother decided to paint one of my walls, and our beach day got postponed until the next time she visits. I do enjoy my fancy wall, though! And we did get to go to inland NC for the furniture shopping, so we got out of the house a bit.
1. Conference in St. Louis
I went to my first official international conference as a representative of my new university. It was non-stop between meeting with our international partners, going to dinners and drinks with companies we're associated with, and trying to catch up with friends and colleagues from around the world.Since I was so close to home, I added on a week of vacation with my mom. It was nice being back in Missouri - I got to spend time with family, and had several days to just relax and go to the zoo.
2. Glissette's adoptiversary
On July 30th, Glissette had been with me for a year. I celebrated by making her a smorgasbord meal with all of her favorites - biscuits, shrimp, edamame, carrot, apple, cruller, and lots more. She was so excited she couldn't decide which to choose! Ok, I'll be honest, she got to the biscuit first and decided that must be the best offering, so she stayed by it and ate to her heart's content, then I set the other yummies around her.I also bought a toy barn that the girls seem to love :-).
3. I moved
I bought a house. I figure I'll be here a while, and I wanted something more permanent than my apartment. It was a great place to live for my first year here, but I love my house. The house is all mine, and I can paint and decorate anyway I want. I'm still decorating/unpacking, but I promise myself I will have it all done by Thanksgiving.4. My mom visited
And we did a lot of shopping. I purchased a sofa, a bedroom set, and a dining room table. I should have it all by Thanksgiving - thus my self-imposed deadline for being settled.My plans for the short visit got a little muddled. My mother decided to paint one of my walls, and our beach day got postponed until the next time she visits. I do enjoy my fancy wall, though! And we did get to go to inland NC for the furniture shopping, so we got out of the house a bit.
5. I was bitten by a cat
I've been volunteering with a cat rescue group - they have cats up for adoption at Petsmart, and basically I go in and clean their cages and get some of my kitty cuddly time. Last week, however, one of the cats was fed up with being caged, and in my attempts to get her out from underneath the cages she bit me near the cuticle on my pinkie. Normally their cats are calm, but she was just fed up. I didn't really do anything to provoke her other than put my hand near her... I didn't realize cat bites could be so bad. By the following morning, my pinkie was swollen, red, and in a lot of pain. I went to urgent care and have been on a round of antibiotics since. I'm glad I acted when I did, since after looking online I've learned cat bites can get bad fast! I grew up with cats, but don't recall ever getting really bitten before - guess there has to be a first for everything. And don't worry, this cutie wasn't the biter :-).
6. Lavender's Adoptiversary
November 11 Lavender had her adoptiversary celebration. She celebrated with edamame, pumpkin spice doughnuts, cranberries, pomegranate, feta, and pumpkin seeds. She too couldn't decide what was best, and settled on the edamame first.
7. Thanksgiving at Virginia Beach
For Thanksgiving I decided to spend the long weekend in Virginia Beach. Mainly the trip was to relax and get away, and a view of the morning ocean was perfect.
I arrived on Thanksgiving, and found an Irish pub nearby that was serving a turkey dinner, so I was able to eat mashed potatoes, green bean casserole, turkey, and pumpkin pie - all without the mess of cleaning up!
Black Friday I actually did a quadruple feature - I went to the Virginia aquarium in the morning and ended my visit with the 'Under the Sea' imax film, then I went to a theater and saw Frozen, Delivery Man, and Catching Fire. I remember doing multiple films the day after Thanksgiving with my family while growing up, so it is nice to continue that tradition.
Saturday I did a bit of shopping and took advantage of the drive-through lights along the beach.
8. I have furniture!
Not quite received by Thanksgiving, but a week late isn't bad. Drawers and a sofa and a real table, I love it!
9. In other news
The need to travel is in me. Why is it so darn expensive to get back over to Europe? Or even Canada? I would love to see other places of the world, but France is calling my name. I am trying to be patient - it seems my escape plan will not take effect until sometime next summer. But I will make it happen! France, here I come!
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